A beneficiary form is one of the shortest documents you will ever sign, and one of the most powerful. Whoever is named on it generally receives the money, whatever your will says. If your life has changed since you filled it out, learning how to change a beneficiary is one of the quickest ways to protect the people you care about. This guide walks through the process for each type of account, explains when a spouse's consent is needed, and covers what to do after a divorce.

Quick answer
How do you change a beneficiary?

Contact the company that holds the account (the insurer, plan administrator, bank, or brokerage), ask for its change-of-beneficiary form, complete it, and submit it. Then get written confirmation of the change. Each account has its own form, and your will cannot do this for you.

  • You change each account separately, with that account's institution.
  • Employer retirement plans may require your spouse's written consent to name someone else.
  • Ask for written confirmation, and keep a copy.

Before You Start: Make a List and Check for Restrictions

A beneficiary designation usually overrides your will. FINRA, the securities industry regulator, says a transfer-on-death registration or other beneficiary document supersedes your will, and its example is a will that splits assets between two children while the form names only one. Our guide to what a beneficiary is explains why.

Start by listing every account that has a beneficiary:

  • Life insurance policies, including any through your employer
  • 401(k), 403(b), and pension plans
  • IRAs and Roth IRAs
  • Annuities
  • Bank accounts with a payable-on-death (POD) designation
  • Brokerage accounts with a transfer-on-death (TOD) designation
  • Real estate with a transfer-on-death deed, where your state allows it

Then ask each institution who it has on file. FINRA advises asking your firm who it has recorded as a beneficiary for each of your accounts. Many people discover an old name, or no name, at this step.

Restrictions that can block a change

  • Irrevocable beneficiaries. The National Association of Insurance Commissioners (NAIC) defines an irrevocable beneficiary as one with a vested interest in a life insurance policy's proceeds during the insured's lifetime. The policy owner can change the designation only with that person's consent.
  • Spousal consent. Federal law protects spouses under certain employer plans. See the section below.
  • Divorce agreements and court orders. A divorce decree or separation agreement may require you to keep a former spouse or children as beneficiaries. Read yours before you change anything.

How to Change a Beneficiary by Account Type

The names of the forms differ, but the pattern is the same: ask the institution for its form, complete it, and return it. Many institutions accept changes online. Others require paper forms, and some may ask for extra signature verification. Follow your institution's instructions.

Account Who to contact What to know
Life insurance The insurer (or your employer's benefits office for group coverage) Only the policy owner can change it. An irrevocable beneficiary must consent.
401(k), 403(b), pension The plan administrator or the plan's benefits website A spouse may have to consent in writing if you name someone else.
IRA or Roth IRA The custodian (the bank, brokerage, or fund company) Name primary and contingent beneficiaries on the custodian's form. See our guide to inherited IRA rules for what beneficiaries face.
Annuity The insurance company Check the contract for any survivor benefit that applies automatically.
Bank account (POD) Your bank Ask for the POD or beneficiary form. The beneficiary receives the money at your death without probate.
Brokerage account (TOD) Your brokerage firm FINRA says you can change beneficiaries or cancel a TOD throughout the life of your account, but once you die the designations cannot be changed.

FINRA also notes that the way a brokerage account is titled typically changes once you make a TOD designation. If you move an account to another firm, confirm the beneficiary designations transfer with it.

For more on what happens at each type of account after a death, see retirement accounts when someone dies and bank accounts when someone dies.

After a Divorce: Do Not Assume the Form Updated Itself

Some states have laws that treat a former spouse as if they had died before you for certain designations. Maine's version of the Uniform Probate Code, for example, says divorce revokes a revocable disposition to a former spouse unless the document or a court order says otherwise.

Those state laws do not always control. In Egelhoff v. Egelhoff, the U.S. Supreme Court held that a Washington statute revoking a spouse's designation on divorce was pre-empted by ERISA as applied to employee benefit plans. In Kennedy v. Plan Administrator for DuPont Savings and Investment Plan, the Court held that ERISA provides no exception to the plan administrator's duty to act in accordance with plan documents.

The practical lesson is simple. After a divorce, change your beneficiary on every account yourself, and read your divorce decree to see if it requires something different. Do not rely on state law to fix the form for you.

Common mistake: Updating the will after a divorce but leaving the 401(k) form alone. The form controls. The ex-spouse may still receive the money.

Choosing the New Beneficiary

  • Name a contingent beneficiary. If the primary beneficiary dies first and no backup is on file, the money may default to your estate. Our beneficiary guide covers primary and contingent designations.
  • Use full legal names and identifying details. Include date of birth and, where the form asks, the relationship. Vague entries such as "my children" can cause delays.
  • Be careful with minors. A child who is a minor cannot generally take direct control of large sums. See the section on naming a minor child in our beneficiary guide, and consider speaking with an attorney about a trust or custodian.
  • Think about a trust. Some people name a living trust as beneficiary of certain accounts. This is a planning decision with tax and control effects; see what a living trust is and speak with a professional.

After You Make the Change

  1. Get written confirmation. Download or request a confirmation from the institution. Do not assume a submitted form was processed.
  2. Check the record. A few weeks later, log in or call and confirm the beneficiary shown matches what you intended.
  3. Keep copies. Store them with your will and other planning documents.
  4. Tell your executor and family where records are. Our emergency information list gives you a place to record each account and its beneficiary.
  5. Set a review date. Check designations after marriage, divorce, a birth, a death, or a big change in your finances.

If you are the one settling an estate and find an outdated designation, our guides on how to settle an estate and being an executor explain the next steps.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I change a beneficiary?
Contact the institution that holds the account, such as the insurer, plan administrator, bank, or brokerage. Ask for its change-of-beneficiary form, complete it, and submit it. Then request written confirmation. Each account is changed separately, and a will cannot change a beneficiary designation.
Can I change a beneficiary without telling them?
Generally yes. The account owner can usually change a revocable beneficiary without the beneficiary's knowledge or consent. The main exceptions are an irrevocable beneficiary on a life insurance policy, which requires that person's consent, and spousal consent rules for some employer retirement plans.
Does my will change a beneficiary designation?
No. A beneficiary designation generally overrides your will. FINRA, for example, says a transfer-on-death registration supersedes your will. To change who receives an account, you must update the form with the institution.
Does my spouse have to approve a beneficiary change?
For some employer retirement plans, yes. Under 29 U.S.C. 1055, waiving a spouse's survivor benefit requires the spouse's written consent, which must acknowledge the effect of the change and be witnessed by a plan representative or a notary public. Ask your plan administrator what applies to your plan.
Does divorce automatically remove an ex-spouse as beneficiary?
Not reliably. Some states revoke a former spouse's designation on divorce, but the U.S. Supreme Court has held that such state laws are pre-empted for ERISA plans, and plan administrators must follow plan documents. After a divorce, update every beneficiary form yourself.
Can a beneficiary be changed after the owner dies?
Generally no. FINRA says that once the owner of a brokerage account dies, the designated beneficiaries cannot be changed. If the designation on file is outdated, the money goes to who is named, which is why reviewing forms while you are alive matters.
Next step: Once your beneficiaries are current, check the other planning basics. The Plan Ahead hub lists the documents most people need, and our complete guide covers what comes after a death.
Reviewed October 16, 2026
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Page last reviewed: October 16, 2026